someone asks, What is "Silence is golden"? Now whether you agree silence is golden?
Of course depending on circumstances. If we make the score 0-3, the score was still only between 0 and 1 only because there is a higher value than silence is saying there are good and higher than said both the ACTION good / positive.
What is worse than silent is to say under the said bad and bad is another action that is bad.
That created the table might be like this, the highest score Level 3: Action (change things for the better by hand or deeds). Second highest level the score 2: Suggesting / warning (to change things for the better with oral). Level into a single score 1: Silent but in her heart to save the anger or resentment positively to change. Level zero score 0: Silence is absolutely no reaction, let go (sincerely not in place - willing to ugliness).
Level minus 1: Silent but be silent but agree with the ugliness of (pro ugliness). Level minus 2: Using verbal for evil (Well at this level the words "will say good or better still" can be applied. Level minus 3 (the lowest): To do bad, bad support or become agents of harm.
Quite obvious right? Well how about practice in the field? Did you ever go to the toilet a large shopping center is small, so remote jostling? If all the visitors still do not have a protest to the management of the mall is not going to fix the toilet facilities. But if every visitor after urination complaints, at least think the mall management to improve facilities. Unfortunately most of the visitors was only silence. Silence like this that his name was not sincere in place, the patient is off the mark application.
Talk without science is also dangerous. Did you hear Miss Universe event closed twitter account? He said, let's pray for the Koreans, I hope the two countries in China this could be peaceful. He abused because they do not know Korea was two different countries and not in China. Imagine the right thing could be a problem. Miss Universe was shy and closed Twitter.
The important thing now is, where you want to put yourself. When he saw evil you choose quiet, submissive? Or choose to speak or write for improvement? Or choose a positive action with the power that you have? If silence is golden, then speak well maybe pearls, and positive action is DIAMOND.
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Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Silence is golden? Not really
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