Don't let your Child's talent and intelligence to be buried

During a lecture I know an elementary school child who is very creative and intelligent.
The indication, every time I give a challenge brain challenge game, he almost always able to conquer it, even though the first time to see the game. Though not a few friends of students who failed to conquer the brain game.

Brain games are often used also to check the IQ test,and I'll bet the boy's intelligence above average.
At that time I thought, this kid has tremendous potential and its future will be bright. Imagine, students can be defeated only when the elementary school.

Fifteen years later I met again with the child. He is no longer a child. He was already stepping over twenty years. From the story, I knew he had graduated high school but not college and already working.
Did what work?
He worked as a security guard at a small company with a very small salary because there is no other place that will accept work.

Tragic is not it?
Yes, if only the child is guided well, maybe a brighter future.
Or if his family is rich, maybe a different story.
Or maybe, if the child had a bigger dream,
looking for the right association, his fate would be better.
But I do not want to think in question, it's nobody.

I am more interested to see this as self-reflection.
Realize the story of these children actually represent the majority of us. Many people around us like this, looks so great in childhood, and so does anyone in the future.
Maybe even ourselves, too.

Why can people who have so much potential in the past ended up being a nobody? Many causes.
Maybe we surrender to the circumstances that do not support.
Maybe we're quick to surrender. Maybe we do not consider ourselves to have potential. And so many possibilities.

But the only one who can explain why we live comfortably mediocre. Since we are already comfortable with the excuse that we make to live mediocre.
Excuse the same as we've legitimized our failures.

If the child does not make his poverty,ignorance as an excuse her parents she might be bigger.
If we are not fettered excuse, maybe we are bigger than now.

Therefore, stop making excuse, No Excuse!
With the spirit of No Excuse, we can achieve anything we want.
Greetings.

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Gather Your Courage For a Better Life

In a private coaching session writing Thesis and Scientific Work, some friends have always said that his research could not be due to not perfect. His writing is not finished finished as incomplete. I told them, do not wait for perfect, since there is no such thing as perfect. There is always a better way of things.
Maybe you say your thesis is complete, it was perfect. Next year you will read again we find a lot of shortcomings.

So if you want to write, so write it down. Complete.

I remember, a lot of acquaintances who do not want to become entrepreneurs because it was not ready when funds exist.

Some feel his rudimentary knowledge about the business. I say, if you wait for perfect, then when you decide to become entrepreneurs, then you already feel perfect, and when it felt it was perfect just shows you guys are not perfect.

So, start it, finish it.
If you want to start a business waiting for it all ready, might not do business.
If you want to join the waiting race ready, might not join the race.

Direct ACTION.
ACTION is the road to perfection (read: repair).
Not the other way, waiting for perfection, then ACTION
If you wait for perfect, could have been will never ACTION.
Moreover PERFECTION belongs only to God.

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Do you have a grudge?

In an oil mining company in Saudi Arabia, in the late 40s tahuin. A low-level employees, local juvenile native Saudi, thirst, and rushed to find water for watering the dry throat. He was so excited when he saw a look of cold water in front and hasten to fill the cold water into a glass.

Not yet had he drank, his hands stopped by a rebuke: "Hey, you should not drink this water. You're just a lowly worker. Water is special just for engineers" It came from the mouth of an American engineer who worked at the company.

The teen finally just stopped holding thirsty. He knew he only poor children of primary school graduates. Even if there are proud of education, he graduated from the Quran Tahfidz institutions, but that skill is of no value in the oil company that is currently controlled by American management.

Rebuke is always ringing in his head.

He then wonders:  

Why is this happening to me?  

Why a glass of water only forbidden to me?  

Is it because I lowly workers, while their engineers?  

Is if I were an engineer I can drink?  

Whether I could be an engineer like them?
This question has always existed within him.

 
This incident eventually become momentum for him to awaken "revenge POSITIVE"
Finally comes a commitment in itself. Adolescent poor and worked hard during the day and attend school at night. Almost every day he lack of sleep to catch up. Not infrequently the ridicule of friends were received.

Hard work to reach the results. 

He finally graduated from high school. His hard work made the company give him a chance to explore science. He was sent to America to take classes S1 and master of engineering geology. This young man graduated with distinction.

Subsequently he returned to his country and worked as an engineer. Now he has conquered his revenge, returned as an engineer and can drink water that had banned him.

Was it at that. No, his career racing continues.  

He has been trained to work hard and catch up, in the work of his career following any other. His career jumped from the head section, branch chief, the general manager until he served as deputy director, a top job that can be achieved by local people at that time. There are interesting incident when he was the vice president. American engineer who used to throw him out, now it became subordinates.

One day the American engineers came to this because they want to ask permission off and said, "I want to ask permission of the holiday. I hope you do not link the occurrence of water in the past with this official work. I hope you do not take revenge, for my rudeness and bad behavior in the past " 

What said the former deputy director of the lowly workers of this: "I want to thank you from the deepest depths of my heart because you forbid me to drink at that time. Yes I used to hate you. But, after the permission of Allah, you is because my success until I achieve this success."

Now the other positive revenge already defeated.

So whether the story here? No. Finally, it occupies a lowly ex-employees of the highest positions in the company. He became the first president who came from Arab nations.

Did you know what companies they lead? The company is Aramco (Arabian American Oil Company) the world's largest oil company. Hand the company is getting bigger and more dominant ownership of Saudi Arabia. These firms now produce 3.4 million barrels (540 million m3) and controls more than 100 oil and gas fields in Saudi Arabia, with total reserves of 264 billion barrels (4.20 × 1010 m3) of oil and 253 trillion gas reserves. For his achievements, he was appointed King of Saudi Arabia to serve as Minister of Petroleum and Minerals that have a huge influence on the world.

Did the story of who this is? This is the story of Ali bin Ibrahim Al-Naimi that since 1995 till now (2011) served as Minister of Petroleum and Minerals Saudi Arabia.

Imagine, only by developing a positive insult to revenge, a glass of water issues in the past, shaping it into one of the most influential rulers of oil worldwide.

That's the power of "revenge POSITIVE"
We can not regulate how others behave toward us. We never know how things will befall us. But we fully have control of what to do.
Would like destroyed it?  

Or get up in the spirit of "revenge Positive."

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How is Your Image in the Community, Family, Friends?

Middle-aged couple came to the lobby of a small hotel in Philadelphia. Already some hotels they visited, and this seems the last hope. Especially when it rained hard, so not many more options for their shelter.

"All the big hotels in this city have been filled, can you give us a room alone ..?" the man asked the hotel staff, half hope.

"All the rooms have been full because there are 3 major event that simultaneously held in this city," replied the clerk, "but I can not possibly ask you both going to rain out there at one o'clock in the morning like this," he continued. 

Then the officer asked, "Would you both sleep in my room? Not fancy, but good enough for the rest." Eventually the couple was sleeping overnight in his sleeping room employees and the employees sleep sober. The couple are very grateful to the employees.

The next day, before parting, the old man said to the clerk, "People like you should be the leader of America's finest hotels. Because you do your work with a willing heart to serve. Maybe one day I will build a hotel for you." Employees of the hotel was just a big smile to hear the old man, and they parted.

Approximately two years later, the employee receives a letter containing a ticket to New York, a request that he be living a middle-aged couple who had to help. After arriving in New York, middle-aged man was a hotel employee took it to the corner of 5th Avenue and 34th Street. There he pointed to a remarkable new building grand and say, "That's the hotel that I wake up to you to manage." 

Know who these employees?
A hotel employee was George Charles Boldt, now known as the leading hospitality business. His career racing since he was entrusted to manage the hotel owned by a man who never permitted to stay in his room.

Did anyone middle-aged man on his help?
He was William Waldorf Astor, owner of the Waldorf-Astoria hotel chain, which is one of the best hotel chain in the world.

This story shows us, a little kindness can change the future.
There is no reason for not doing good.

Often we assume we do not have the capital to do business but is it? Capital not only money, but trust and credibility is capital that can not be underestimated. Even bigger than financial capital.

A good is an investment.
Though do not expect self-interest, because any good will be rewarded by God, but not infrequently also directly bear fruit sweet goodness in the world. George Charles Boldt already proved. Credibility is also important capital.

we can also see the story of Conrad Hilton.  
After getting fired from his employment, he could build the hotel because he had credibility. People trust him so that he could easily borrow money whose value is 4 times of its wealth. If he does not invest into people who can be trusted, how could people want to invest in the new Hilton lost sources of income.

Often we hear people complain: "Find capital hard!" "Where there are people willing to invest to me!"

The question:
Is all this time he has built image as someone who can reliably manage the capital ?
So do not just complain when there is no capital. Good investment as much as possible from now. Build credibility and trust. Because there is any goodness of seeds in return.
We never know how good will help us in the future, but we can be sure every good there is value.
Investment is in goodness.

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Let's take an example a figure Oprah ..

"Everyone has talent. What is rare is the courage to follow the talent to the dark place it leads Nowhere." Erica Jong 

"You never know how a horse will from the pull Until you hook uterus to a heavy load." Paul Bryant, American football coach

Successful people and people fail, most in fact both have doubts on what's new, new job or a new field. But what distinguishes?

Successful people dare to try. They brave one, dare to fail and they want to learn from mistakes or failures, and work hard and develop the ability to correct errors. There will never be Oprah Winfrey's show when Oprah had never tried the first opportunity to hold talk show even though he had hesitated.

Never refuse an opportunity not only because he felt sure she could do it. If there is a good chance, try first, if fails try again. There are other opportunities, try also. A time will come the best opportunities that make you a great and extraordinary. Especially if all it takes is courage and sincerity to try, without the risk of cost.

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Let's Invest Properly and Profitably

Most of you who know economics, may be considered mad if anyone says that there is a currency that is not familiar with inflation. Wherever we learn economics, must be taught what is called inflation.

But it turns out, there is a currency that since 1400 years ago until now worth the same.

What is it? "Dinar"
Is that true? Of course.

In the history revealed one dinar in the time of the Prophet Muhammad (the Prophet for Muslims), enough to buy 1 head of goat. Apparently at this time (in 2011) also remains one dinar keeping enough to buy 1 head of goat. 

Time for 1400 years seems enough to prove that the concept of currency without inflation is not nonsense. In fact, when compared with the rest of the currency in circulation worldwide, currency "Dinar" have increased the nominal value is not inflation.

For example, to go to Hajj (for Muslims), in 1997, people need 97 dinars to go to Hajj, but in 2003 only took 50 dinars to go to Hajj, and by 2010 enough to 22 pence, we can go on Hajj.

But first let's straighten what is meant by this denarius.
What is meant by currency "Dinar" here is the dinar coin-based 22-carat gold weighing 4.25 grams of standardization set by Umar Bin Khattab. Do not be fooled by the Iraqi Dinar currency, Dinar Kuwait, Libyan Dinar, etc., because it just dinar dinars dinar's name or labeling, not the gold dinar. With the Dinar, probably no more currency speculators, there is no financial crisis, because all the measuring is gold, silver (dirhams).

But of course difficult to change the economic order that has been so entrenched. Therefore, any country who dared to first adopt the system, the dinar, then it will be the most resistant state of crisis and inflation.

For example, Indonesia has Dinar Indonesia (my country). Suddenly the Indonesian currency fell as the financial crisis is considered first. Do not worry, it only sell gold. So, will never fall.

During this proven gold prices never fall. (Down fluctuation, yes, but every year in the end increases).
Then how can we go shopping when I have to bring gold everywhere? Yes there are still only paper money, but with the concept dinar banknotes was certified gold.

Concept of old paper money equal to the dinar. Old paper money was certified gold. Each paper money printed, then there is a specific value of gold reserves are stored. But that was before, gold and currency has nothing to do. When America runs out of resources due to the war in Vietnam and it took a lot of money, then America as much as possible to print money by no longer considering gold reserves.

American International agreements even cancel the count that determines the currency and gold reserves.
Since then print the money and gold have nothing to do anymore. Today the world is still faced with the risk of crisis.

Developed countries and the rich even though it seems to support the monetary system in use today, quietly preparing that if the recession.

What they have prepared. Gold.
Now almost all major countries increase their stock of gold as a reserve. 

If we think "Dinar" ...
So does any good to think dinars for individuals? 

If you want a safe investment without much consideration, the answer Dinar, not play the stock, not insurance, not mutual. If you want to save for marriage, child education, the answer is in Dinar. Because Dinar superior property, shares, savings, deposits, insurance, etc.. 

You will be amazed at how many financial solutions that can be found if you "think Dinar"
Most likely you're sorry you did not know the concept of the dinar is now, because if only we had known for a long time, of course life is much better.

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Do You Already Have Evolved in this Life?

A young man stopped a taxi in the street and immediately climbed into the backseat.

After the door closed, the driver asked, "Where are you going sir?" "I do not know?" the young man replied calmly. 

"Then I have to do?" asked the driver. "It's up to you, which is important I pay, replied the youth.
What happens next?

Driver only just spinning, spinning round continues until finally the driver fatigue and do not know the direction. After hours of spinning, the driver finally returned to the youth rose, and silent for a long time. Argo is still running. Then the young man out and pay the entire cost of hundreds of thousands of dollars to be in the place of origin?

The young man spent time and money without moving anywhere.

Who is the young man?

The young man is a picture of us who do not have a purpose in life? If we do not have a purpose in life, and make the journey of life, then it is probable that we returned to that direction only.
 
Many people who felt it had a purpose in life. But actually there in that way only.

Since our little school. Every year the goal attempt to the next grade so he could attend school. Then learn more, so the next grade and can continue their education. Then go to college and so on.

When asked to what school, then the answer "in order to find work," It's that simple huh?
Then asked what the purpose of employment. The answer so I can eat. It's that simple huh?
Then have children, children sent to school, the goal in order to work, I'll be able to eat. And so on.
Apparently they go through life, but there is no value added. That's it.

If life is only to be able to eat or survival (surviving), and all the things done in life just to be able to eat or survive, then what is the difference between humans and animals?

Hopefully we are not including people who live just to live.
Hopefully we are not including people who live just spinning so-so alone, because there is no clear objective would be brought where we live.
Hopefully we do not include people who fill his life with the vanity?

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Silence is golden? Not really

someone asks, What is "Silence is golden"? Now whether you agree silence is golden?  
Of course depending on circumstances. If we make the score 0-3, the score was still only between 0 and 1 only because there is a higher value than silence is saying there are good and higher than said both the ACTION good / positive.

What is worse than silent is to say under the said bad and bad is another action that is bad.

That created the table might be like this, the highest score Level 3: Action (change things for the better by hand or deeds). Second highest level the score 2: Suggesting / warning (to change things for the better with oral). Level into a single score 1: Silent but in her heart to save the anger or resentment positively to change. Level zero score 0: Silence is absolutely no reaction, let go (sincerely not in place - willing to ugliness).

Level minus 1: Silent but be silent but agree with the ugliness of (pro ugliness). Level minus 2: Using verbal for evil (Well at this level the words "will say good or better still" can be applied. Level minus 3 (the lowest): To do bad, bad support or become agents of harm.

Quite obvious right? Well how about practice in the field? Did you ever go to the toilet a large shopping center is small, so remote jostling? If all the visitors still do not have a protest to the management of the mall is not going to fix the toilet facilities. But if every visitor after urination complaints, at least think the mall management to improve facilities. Unfortunately most of the visitors was only silence. Silence like this that his name was not sincere in place, the patient is off the mark application.

Talk without science is also dangerous. Did you hear Miss Universe event closed twitter account? He said, let's pray for the Koreans, I hope the two countries in China this could be peaceful. He abused because they do not know Korea was two different countries and not in China. Imagine the right thing could be a problem. Miss Universe was shy and closed Twitter.

The important thing now is, where you want to put yourself. When he saw evil you choose quiet, submissive? Or choose to speak or write for improvement? Or choose a positive action with the power that you have? If silence is golden, then speak well maybe pearls, and positive action is DIAMOND.

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