train your sensitivity to the people around you

The true story in America this might be a lesson for you.
A beautiful little baby just born and made his parents very happy. The husband and wife were so eager to fill the days with their little girl.
But what power, even though so much love is given, the baby did not show much respect for his parents.
At the age of one year has not established good communication between the child and both parents. At the age of 2 years old baby, were often ignored the ban on parents.
At the age of three years the baby was still ignoring the advice of their parents until the parents label him as a child 'naughty' hard-advised.
But in this third year is also the parents finally realized their mistake.
A FATAL MISTAKE that.
Do you know what's wrong?
Apparently during the 3-year old man does not know that their child was deaf.
Yes, at the age of 3 years but only recently recognized that the baby was deaf.
So far the baby is not ignoring the elderly, but did not hear anything.
Can you imagine that?
I do not know how it could happen, but if parents believe the child's little that there was something naughty child behind, may matter more quickly detected.
Another story also happened in Indonesia.
There's a kid who works piss continue.
When traveling, just piss on this petrol station and request urinate again at another petrol station.
He was already 7 years but could not hold urine is more severe than baby boy.
His parents were sometimes annoyed to see her son who always pee so make cars stop frequently stop by just to go to the toilet.
This happens quite often.
Until finally it was too late.
Apparently the children diagnosed with diabetes, and being late is known,
The child eventually died.
If only parents could believe that what is felt the child is correct, if only parents believe there is something wrong, not on his son, but in his condition, probably will make no difference.
Yes, prejudice either in person / child,
can make us decide something with more precise.
Sometimes we see people / children learning lazy, lazy lazy to work or school, then we say he is the person / child lazy. And maybe he was a victim of abuse of his friends at school or at work to lose the spirit of learning / working. So in this case the problem of abuse (discrimination in schools) in the workplace that must be resolved not by hitting the child if you do not learn or mendikriminasikan people who are lazy to work.
  So every time someone raises a problem, then our task is to detect an integral what had happened.
Sometimes what we see as the cause, is a result rather than cause.
So make sure we address the problem of source masalahanya not a result of its derivatives. This applies not only in parenting but in life overall.
Discover the source of the problem, then we could solve the problem.
People used to say
"There is no smoke if there is no fire"
So whatever we exhaust smoke as good as he will still appear unless the flame is turned off.