How Do You Convey Your Argument?

A beggar came pleaded in a rich man "asking for money, sir" "I don't have small money!," Protested the rich. "Money is great also be sir" "I have no money," said the rich upset. "Then, I'm eating, sir" "I also have no food '" replied the angry rich. This time the voices of beggars change confidently. "Mr. join me!" "Where?" asked the rich wonder. "We are begging together, sir. I'll teach. You do not have the money and not have to eat, I am sorry for you sir. I have little money still remained. I'll buy food for you !"???

Humor and wisdom.  
Sometimes we often underestimate the listener. Because we underestimate our speaker, do not use proper logic to our words. As a result, our arguments boomerang.

Choosing a brief word to argue is one skill that will help you. At least you can save time and make your ideas accepted people.

The rich really just want to say that he did not want to love charity. Maybe because he does not like people begging or she assumes that the beggar begging for lazy work. Legitimate. Indeed, sometimes we see a beggar is a worthy but there's also helped that looks should not ask-minta. But if it does not want to give, to select words or gestures that are effective, not to reject it makes us even how to look stupid, like a rich person above . If you want to refuse, just say sorry. If you are still forced to, say sorry again a little harder. If you are still forced, then the beggar is not to beg but to force, you may call it.

The core of this paper is, do not underestimate the listener. whoever they are. Do not underestimate the logic of a child. Do not underestimate the logic of class brother. Do not dismiss a new employee. Just do not underestimate the intellect of others, whoever they are. A lot of people who appear to be low and poor, sebenarmya they are candidates for great people who are still in the process of maturation. If we underestimate others, then we will issue a sober argument. The argument pickup close to the error. And it could be a boomerang that embarrass us.